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Island

For all of us who are sure

we are islands, inhabited or not,

remote or nearby,

there comes a time when

we’re given a glimpse

of a different reality.

Someone enters our life,

or we find ourselves in theirs,

or a whole lot of both.

First, it may only seem peninsula-like,

with but a narrow stretch of connection.

Then comes the day when

it all breaks up again;

not merely a canal trenched between us,

but a catastrophic explosion,

as life evaporates

and with it, love.

Unmoored, we seem to drift,

no rhyme or reason,

no hope or season.

Then, one day, a memory revisits

in ways unimaginable,

awakening us to the reality that

we’ve never been alone.

Both love and the one with whom

we discovered and experienced it

have accompanied us all along;

silent most days, but always there,

watching, holding, giving.

Now that we know,

it gradually becomes easier

to feel, if not see; and others

who have also experienced

the island’s isolation are pontoons,

if not bridge-builders for us,

reflecting the light of their loves

into the depths of our shadows.

—————-

*No man is an island,

Entire of itself;

Every man is a piece of the continent,

A part of the main;*

(John Donne)

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This brought me to tears. Thank you so much for writing it and sharing it.

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🥲so good…. Good tears

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I like to think I am an island though I know full well that there are people who hold me up all around me.

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I rarely write about motherhood

Whenever I try, my words

fail to describe how

when I hold my child

I seem to hold a

small blazing sun

too bright to see fully

or maybe a planet

that hasn’t been

explored yet

or maybe something

not so celestial

maybe just the first

yellow bloom of the season

precious because

it is one of many

but at that moment

the only one

And then again

none of these fit

and all of them do

And there is only

that small hand

reaching up beside me

pulling me along

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this is so beautiful! I've felt this in motherhood too.

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Thank you!

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I relate!

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This is very special, Grace, and resonates with me as a parent and now a grandparent. No words, no matter how lyrical and eloquent, quite capture the beauty and joy. But your poerm comes quite clsoe!

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Thank you so much!

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When you hurt, I hurt.

I do not need

outward evidence

that we are the same.

No similarity in

the shades of our skin

is necessary to qualify

what the cells of my body

already know, which is

that we are kindred,

kindled from the same

stardust and caught

in the same cycle of life.

There is no difference

between our atoms

other than the way

they are arranged,

which is the same

difference between

every being who has

ever existed.

We are inescapably

connected because

no true separation exists

between beings who

are all different

in the same way.

It is enough.

When you hurt, I hurt.

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kindled from the same stardust. yes!!

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The "stardust" and "when you hurt I hurt" and atoms arranged in different ways. Wonderful.

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This is so incredible, A. I love how you begin "when you hurt, I hurt." and like others, these lines are shining:

"that we are kindred,

kindled from the same

stardust and caught

in the same cycle of life."

Shaking my head actively in yes nod! I am so grateful for your kindred spirit!

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Beautiful.

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‘When you hurt, I hurt’ 🤍 Such lovely words

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Love this! My favorite line is "kindled from the same/ stardust".

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Beautiful - I love how you bring us to stardust and atoms and how "we are all different in the same way"

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“Inescapably connected”. ❤️

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Mycelium

A conversation

Invisible lines we draw between stars to tell a story to help us make sense

The cord of an old telephone curled around my fingers

The telegraph wire

The sealed envelope

The hard sitting down with legs uncrossed ears open

My arms around the tree

The indigo bunting staring back at me

The branching lines of taxonomy

The whale is me

The mycelium is me

The rocks are me

The sun is me

Everything seen and unseen is me.

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yes yes yes!

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Beautiful! I'm obsessed with mycelium. Love your poem.

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Thank you!

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Yes the mycelium - all connected.

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YES! I love this, Lisa.

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Thank you!

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This is wonderful, Lisa--very connecting and whole. Thank you.

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Thanks so much!

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What a gorgeous poem!

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Aw, thank you!

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connection

such a sterile word

like puzzle pieces

connect together

or a fire hose

connects to the

water main

when we talk about

living beings

"connection"

is quite inadequate

at times

whether we talk about

quantum entanglement

of particles from across

the universe

to our biological necessity

to be a part of nature

to feel the sun on our skin

nurturing us with vitamin d

or plants that take in CO2

and give off oxygen

we belong to each other

not with one being dominant

and the other submissive

but in community together

I have no idea what the

grand purpose of

an expanding and contracting

universe is

I am not that smart

but I know that in

the vast cosmos

there is some reason

or for me

some spirit

holding us together

more deeply than

just community

but communion

of space and time

embodiment and spirit

emotion and logic

holistically

divinely

poetically

and aesthetically

maintaining us

in harmony

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love this.

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I love this! "more deeply than

just community

but communion

of space and time". Gorgeous

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Lovely 🙏

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It is a wonder all that is holding us together.

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A precious expanse opens before me

from a willingness to peel back the layers.

Like an artichoke after each leaf removed

revealing the soft and tender heart beneath.

The nectarean delicacy of this plant.

.

My willingness to be vulnerable and truly seen

is what opens the door to honest connection.

I fear. How will you hold my tender heart?

With gentle honest care and respect,

or with judgement and dismissal?

.

I long to remove these layers, these coverings

built from shattered dreams, broken promises.

Do you share this yearning too, a cooperative

and mutual reciprocity of openness and support?

A coherence of pulsation where two hearts meet.

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I love the imagery of peeling back the layers and the tender heart underneath.

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This is splendid Julie. I love the artichoke imagery and analogy--what a perfect description! Peeling back those layers is good, cathartic work.

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I really think something sacred happens when we just show up with our art-- each of your poems has moved me and made me think. I really, really appreciate you cultivating this space for all of us to express ourselves and listen together!

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Agree!

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All connections

are ephemeral

except one.

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This is going to haunt me (in a good way)!

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This isn’t really a poem, but it’s what rose up today when I sat down to write about connection. And it still feels poetic to me. Inner dialogue when we are too busy and distracted to pay attention to our own needs and desires, written as a phone conversation.

Call for Connection

Hello?

Hello!

Hold please.

(Silence)

Thank you for holding. Who is this?

It’s me. Or rather, you.

What? We seem to have a poor connection.

Can you hear me?

Are you there?

I’m here.

I hear you.

I’ve been trying to reach you.

What’s that?

I keep missing you.

Listen, I may lose you.

Spotty reception?

Uh huh.

Do you have time to connect?

(Silence)

Disconnected…

Redial…

Come on… pick up, pick up.

(Busy signal)

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This is absolutely a poem!! Thank you for sharing with us ♥️♥️♥️

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Connections

(Game)

Four words

Many meanings

Decipher the connection that unites them all

Connections

(Life)

Innumerable people

Unsolvable problems

Humanity the connection that unites them all

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Karri what fun! I love games, so fun to play along. Yep "Humanity the connection that unites them all."

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The first thing I thought of when I read the prompt was my dog. I have CPTSD and am prone to melancholy. My dog, though? She is prone to extreme delight. She has taught me much about connection - to others, to the earth, to being present.

Every day is a delight!

Is what my dog would say,

Probably

As she discovers the bitter taste of dandelions

And nuzzles her nose into dirt

And stares with wonder at birds flying overhead

And greets each stranger as if they are the best being on earth

She is connected to this world

Fully one with it

A creature with spring blossoms stuck to her nose

Simply happy to be here

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so so good! And it's true. Our dogs remind us of pure joy, don't they?

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This made me smile.

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Mine feel even more connected when they have found something delightfully stinky to roll in!!!

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Peace never wants to go first -

It's gentle, and hangs back and waits.

And if we're not careful

The mind rushes in

With its worries - it quickly creates

The sense that we are not safe;

The notion that we are alone;

The idea that we somehow

Control past and future

And before we know it it's blown

Our heart right out of the water -

That peace doesn't stand a chance now.

We're reeling, and racing, and flooded with fear.

Don't know what - don't know why - don't know how.

But our mind, like our heart, can serve us.

We determine the messages sent.

Take a breath, sink down deep, and remember:

I am safe - I'm connected - I'm present.

I wrote this about a year ago. I have a sinus infection so haven't felt up to writing the last couple of days 💜 Thank you all for your wonderful insights!

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Lovely!

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Thanks for your words, Kaitlin, I feel the same way. It's nice to know even professional writers get that self doubt. I really enjoy your poem your today!

Here's mine:

.

Whizzing through the ionosphere,

ridiculous images

criss-cross the planet.

A parenting joke here,

80s workout clips there,

dogs being cute over there.

Complete random goofiness.

We long for more

but this will do for now.

21st century connection.

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This is such an accurate description of the randomness of social media! 👌

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God of the Untouchable Ones,

you laid loving hands on bodies whose people kept them

at arm’s length — or worse, stone’s throw.

Teach us how to see with Your eyes and touch

with Your hands, because no one

should feel forever outside

the human embrace.

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Thank you Kaitlin! The photo is just wonderful, and what a delightful invitation to be like a 2 year old, and to give ourselves a break. You are fostering wonderful threads of connection in here, and in the world. Blessings to you and your beloveds!

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Thank you Larry!

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(sorry, very uneven, even 4 me)

HATCHET

Hey.

Stop being a dick.

Yup, I know,

I KNOW,

that powerful,

resounding,

satisfying

last-straw whack of the hatchet

is quick and absolutely & passionately & liberatingly

fuck-you-glorious!!!

But its a terminator.

The head is not going back

on that chicken.

So. Time out.

Lets go all tara brach for a minute.

Take a deep breath.

maybe two.

Imagine pruning.

a rose bush perhaps.

Snip a couple of useless strands.

some dead leaves.

that futile infestation of bullshit.

those nourishment-sucking grudges from tipsy head-butts that you like to collect.

Toss them out of the way.

See if anything's left.

Nurture that fruit.

(sheath the hatchet)

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