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Jenny Tanis's avatar

Love is the Shape of the Sidewalk

Some mornings,

love looks like a clump of kids

in Pokémon hoodies and unicorn backpacks,

racing with abandon,

while parents sip coffee

and recount war stories of the night before—

half-awake, mostly present.

Love is in the porch drop-offs

and porch parties:

day drinking while kids play,

a box of hand-me-downs,

flowers, muffins, or hot cocoa,

tucked inside a small bag

with a big message: I see you.

It's found in the text:

Need anything from the store?

The shoveled sidewalk.

The sedum cuttings and tulip bulbs

that remind us each season—

love is resilient

when tended with care.

It lives in how we share grief,

soothe each other's spirals,

celebrate the smallest wins:

a full night's sleep,

a job interview,

poop in the potty (not yours, probably).

It's in driveway therapy sessions,

and lingers over fence posts

as our kids attempt

to stage a backyard coup.

This is how love holds me—

not loud or showy,

but steady as the perennials

I received from a neighbor's split—

a reminder that together

love blooms bigger, fuller,

and the right amount of community

can compost life's hardest days.

-jmt

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Kaitlin Curtice's avatar

🥹🥹♥️♥️

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Jenny Tanis's avatar

Thank you for these prompts 🤍

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jess's avatar

As a mom who just a few days ago got that first potty poop, love this! Thanks

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Jenny Tanis's avatar

Woohoo!!!! Such a huge milestone!

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Katie Spring's avatar

Oh my gosh, I love this so much! It feels like a warm familiar hug ❤️ Every example, from the hand-me-downs to the texts to the poop in the potty to the neighbor's shared perennials all stitch such a real, lived in kind of poem.

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Jenny Tanis's avatar

A lived in kind of poem, oh I love that so much.

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Margaret Somerville's avatar

This is powerful, Jenny. Thank you so much!

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This is beautiful, Jenny. It is a remarkable testimony to the way love shines through the small moments, threading through our lives in the simplest of ways, and also some of the most joyful (and exasperating!). Thank you for a wonderful poem!

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Margaret Somerville's avatar

Ik onkar

The first words of the

Guru Granth Sahib

The sacred scripture of the

Sikhi

Tells us we are one

Humanity and Divinity

Wrapped in the holy ties of being

Indistinguishable

Not the words I learned

When I sat in the red velvet pew

And heard that

Love was patient

Love was kind

Love came in the way I acted,

Known in the unconditional

Of relationship

But now I see the holy words

Are written everywhere

In tongues I cannot speak

In ways I do not walk

In faces never seen before

That speak of a love that is

Me

Not just lives in me

In the spaces between what I say and do

But in my very breathing

In the cells

That make my liver and my hair

Ik onkar

If God is me and I am God

How can I not but

Love

Myself.

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Kaitlin Curtice's avatar

Love this so much!!

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This is wonderfully beautiful and endearing. Love is at the heart of every spirital tradition that I know, when you pare away the rigid fundamentalism often applied by human hands. Thank you for this very lovely reminder. Bless your loving heart.

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Jimmy's avatar

Very good Margaret, thank you

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j.h.kucher's avatar

To be seen

Many will love you

for who you seem to be;

some for who

they think you are,

some for who

they wish you were

or who you could be

if only you tried harder.

Rare is the one

who loves you

undeterred

by who

you really are.

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Korie's avatar

Amen!

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

Very nice and powerful!

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Claire's avatar

I could write a list

So long

Of all the ways you love me

Big and little,

Loud and quiet,

Seen, unseen ways

That spell out those three words

"I love you"

In the everyday ordinaryness

And mess

Of our busy days

That tether our hearts

Together

With twine

Held strong

even when we are apart.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This is a beautiful love poem, Claire, tender and precious, clear and warm.

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Nancy E. Holroyd, RN's avatar

In a heart filled to overflowing,

brimming with love with

no place to go…

now that you were dead…

I found a tissue paper wrapped gift.

All during month of September,

you came home with giggles

and secrets, “Don’t come into the kitchen,”

you would call.

I would hear your feet

beating like a bass drum as you

ran up the stairs.

We, AJ, Dad and me, packed away your clothes,

discovering more tissue paper wrapped gifts

squirreled away in various spots.

Gifts made with all the love in your heart,

a heart that brimmed full and spilled it

out everywhere you would go.

On Christmas morning, eleven weeks

after you died…

Gifts from you, with love, were

under the tree.

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Chuck's avatar

"Gifts made with all the love in your heart"

that is powerful good.

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Nancy E. Holroyd, RN's avatar

Thank you, Chuck

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This is beautiful, Nancy. What a testimony to love, enduring lvoe, grief and the small moments that can bring light and joy into our lives. "I would hear your feet/beating like a bass drum as you/ran up the stairs." As someone who drums, I love these lines, written so well that I can hear, feel and see them.

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Nancy E. Holroyd, RN's avatar

She was our drummer. Oh, nothing fancy, a djembe. She saw one and attended a workshop at a folk music festival. We got her one for her graduation from elementary to middle school.

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A. Wilder Westgate's avatar

I wrote this one a few days ago, and multiple times considered inserting the line, "that's love, I think" so here we are:

On mother's day,

everyone except my husband

mowed, it seemed. A cacophony

of bladed machines sounding,

one after another.

I have always loved the smell of grass,

and hated the sound of mowing.

I bargain with my husband,

who is itching to cut our sea of green,

for at least a bit of peace

on a day that's meant for me,

and he also concedes

certain patches of the yard,

to leave flowers for the bees,

and for the kids to pick freely,

running in my direction shouting,

"Special delivery!"

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

I love this beautiful poem, A. What a special day! I chuckled about the mowing. Here in our progressive university tyown, we really encourage "No Mo May" to the point where peopl,e may stop if you are mowing and admonish or educate you. Meanwhile, anxipus folks like me who want to do the right thing, watch the grass grow higher and higher as the rains come down, wondering if I'll every be avbe to mow it.

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A. Wilder Westgate's avatar

We go back and forth a lot about how early he mows every year. I don't care about grass, I just want to save the pollinators. But he gets anxious about it because it gets harder the taller it is.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

Your partner and I should talk! I agree with you about the pollinators, and the grass eventually will be mowed. But spring is often rainy, and I can hear the grass growing!

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Sarah Hope Guppy's avatar

I love this A. 💜

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Nancy E. Holroyd, RN's avatar

I love the smell of new-mown grass, but hate the sound of lawnmowers, especially when the whole neighborhood is mowing on the same day. Every year I ask my hubby not to mow in the month of May. And every year we watch the grass growing day by day. We live in the country and have a leach field--the grass there is close to 18 inches high, and so far, we haven't had a long enough stretch of sun to dry the grass to mow. He's going to have to bushwhack by the end of May.

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Chad Abbott's avatar

Kaitlin, thank you so much for this journal entry and poem for today. I have been going through some very rough sickness in the past 10 days, so I needed this. It was a balm. Here is the poem I wrote after reading this journal entry.

All I Ever Needed

By: Chad Abbott

I have been walking through a deep valley and now find

myself up the other side in what seems like more stable

ground. Hope rises still. And thank God. But walking up

and out was not a matter of sheer will or strength.

I had help.

It was the warm cup of ginger tea that soothed.

It was the lemon honey in a small mason jar.

Distilled water misting into the air.

Dogs skipping through the room to check in.

Small love notes from soul kin.

Books that became friends.

A wife unwavering in her wisdom and care.

It was the sun creeping through in the morning and new poetry being born.

It was all love.

And it was all I ever needed.

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Kaitlin Curtice's avatar

This is beautiful, and I’m glad you’re feeling a little better and that these words are a balm. Continue to rest! ♥️

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Chad Abbott's avatar

Thank you so much. Keep writing. The world needs it.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This is very nice, Chad. May you continue to heal, receive great care from your partner, drink ginger tea and write poems.

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Chad Abbott's avatar

Thank you so much, Larry. I am better day by day, but it is slow. Isn't that work of healing, though? Slow. Deliberate. Intentional. When you've been in bed 10 days straight with high fever, you want out and fixed as soon as possible. So, moving slowly towards healing is tough, but it is the very way healing happens. And healing is in the small things. Thanks for the comment.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This is good wisdom Chad. That you got out such a good poem is even more impressive given your illness. I hope you continue to heal and get better!

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Sarah Hope Guppy's avatar

Like some kind of

Horse Whisperer,

A voice addresses

My anxiety creatures

(I have many).

This voice names them -

Gives them form.

A neon glowing lightbulb

Emitting heat and pressure -

A cartoon can of soda

Full of fizzy energy.

A tiny chipmunk,

Chittering and writhing around.

All are found deep in my core.

And one by one

The creatures tune in -

Start to soften even -

As they are told that

They do not have to change;

They are welcome as they are.

Eventually, purring

And whickering,

The creatures slip off

Into the unknown.

And I alone am left -

Full of gratitude,

Full of Love.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

Sarah, thank you for this poem. It is beautifully crafted and the love within is felt so clearly. As someone who carries anxiety with me, it is confronting to read your poem and the phrase "anxiety creraturues" has just been added to my lexicon!

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Sarah Hope Guppy's avatar

Ah I'm pleased it spoke to you Larry, thank you 💜 I am big fan of Martha Beck and her latest book, Beyond Anxiety, teaches a method for anxiety creature whispering which I have been trying to practice!

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

Thank you for that recommendation, Sarah! I will check it out! You are a wonderful poet!

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Sarah Hope Guppy's avatar

That's really kind of you to say 😊

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

I love discovering new poetry!

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Katie Spring's avatar

What if all this time

the leaves were whispering

your name, and your breath

was whispering back

What if your body has

always been

a moving prayer —

your feet pulling you

to the forest

because they know

where love roots

and your legs know

how to write in movement

across the land

What if your body,

in all your ups and downs

heaves and whoops,

has been drafting

a poem of celebration

knowing one day your mind

would wake up

to the love that’s been

here all along

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Jimmy's avatar

Wow. Incredible. Saving screenshot of this for myself. Thank you.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This poem leaves me breathless, Katie. Your creative and unique way of weaving words together is a joy to read. “What if all this time/the leaves were whispering/your name, and your breath/was whispering back”. Is such a compelling opening and feels like a poem by itself. As it is, it is a delightful doorway to the love beyond,

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Katie Spring's avatar

Thank you, Larry!

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Karen Mawyer's avatar

Signs of Love

The breeze, softly touching my face,

Scented with verdure, with growth.

The rain, gushing out of the sky,

Watering the roses,

Refreshing the raised beds.

The dawn, reliably returning, again and again,

Newness every morning.

The birds, and squirrels, and deer,

Also returning to this place,

Once the rain has ceased, and the sun has warmed the grass.

And finally, the one who shares his love with me,

Stirring from his dreams,

And joining me for coffee.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This is so wonderfully warm, descriptive and ends so beautifully and tenderly. Thank you Karen, for sharing such a lovely poem.

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Karen Mawyer's avatar

Thanks Larry!

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Hans Jorgensen's avatar

Love happens like chlorophyll,

which eats light itself

and gives life.

Though we have the fancy name

"photosynthesis" for it,

it happens unseen until

we see its fruits.

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kate gardiner clearlight's avatar

Obsessed 😍 love happens like chlorophyll!!

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

I like the creative art of this poem! Chlorophyll and photosynthesis, I have not heard those riffs in a long time.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

I started this poem in an entirely different place and thoughts, and somehow this emerged.

Love’s flame flickered

that first time I saw you.

The fire caught that initial time

we spoke,

the sparks ignited into perpetual flame

as we began our journey together.

^

Shining graceful dances,

hopeful leaps of faith,

losses that seemed to have no end,

Brought us to places we never

dreamed we go.

Far too off the beaten track

for even our wildest romantic visions.

^

Like the treks we have made,

winding through this glorious mystery,

some of the climbs have been steeper

than we ever realized.

The downhills often buckling our knees,

the waters deeper than our enduring love.

^

Four decades on we gaze at each other,

wondering “how did this ever happen?”

even as we softly whisper, “I love you.”

^

May we hold those quiet whispers

gently in our hearts and spirits,

when tears are endless waterfalls,

years have run out of rivers to cross

and there are no more trails to follow.

Let our love still light our way through

the darkness.

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Katie Spring's avatar

Larry, this is so beautiful. Those last two lines gave me chills - what a way to honor your love ❤️

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

Thank you Katie. It is so easy to get inspired by the wonderful poets here, like you!

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jess's avatar

A beautiful poem and love story

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

Thank you Jess!

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Elsa Cook's avatar

I love the simplicity of your poem and the reminder that love is revealed in what we do. Thank you for this blessing in poetry every day this month.

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Jane Anderson's avatar

I place the S’more truffle on the counter, where you will find it when you arrive home from work.

Chocolate has always been your love language. A little love note from me to you.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

Yes! I want smores, chocolate truffles and sweet things after reading your evocative poem. Thank you Jane!

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kate gardiner clearlight's avatar

still mostly dark

the chickadee calls out,

clear and strong, wholly

committed to waking this world

in kindness, alongside

the bright waning moon, the morning star,

the valley stream— all these gentle

morning heralds

of a land so longing

for our love, so willing

to hold us in our sleep.

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Katie Spring's avatar

wholly committed to waking this world in kindness ❤️ I love your last lines, too — I was thinking the other day of how, when I see my son sleeping, I feel so much love well up. There's something about that quiet and coziness that reveals all the soft innocence even as he grows. And I wonder if the Earth falls in love with us and other creatures more when we're sleeping, too!

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

This is brilliant Katie! I hope Earth does...

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kate gardiner clearlight's avatar

🥹 this is the most beautiful thing to envision… all of us being loved with that motherly love in our sleep 💔 so so beautiful.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

What an engaging, heartwarming and compassionate poem! Kate, I could hear the chickadee and be right there in viewing the "bright waning moon, the morning star/the valley stream." I truly enjoy reading your poems every day!

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kate gardiner clearlight's avatar

Thank you dear Larry ♥️

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

it is truly my joy, Kate!

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Korie's avatar

“Love” is what I call her…

Because she is my love,

Made by love,

Deserving of love,

And I intend to give

Her the kindness,

And the patience

Given me by Grace,

Bearing all things,

Accepting all things

As part of our love’s journey.

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Larry Brickner-Wood's avatar

A hearty amen to this, Korie!

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