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We leave our husbands

and our children

and our jobs

and our home state

We drive together

retreat to the ocean

to the house that holds

us and opens us

We pour gin and tonics

into mason jars

and walk to the beach

at sunset

Every spring we gather

here, this salt water

this expanding sky

our rising laughter

Our friendship carrying us

through the tides

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I love your poem, Kaitlin, especially these lines:

being

a friend is a kind

of honoring, a kind

of holding to kinship

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This is splendid, Katie! What a beautiful witness to a special friendship!

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Thank you!

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Ships

To new ships

and old ships

and all ships

on the sea.

The best ships

are friendships,

so here’s

to you and me.

The two greatest

ships are larger

than we, by

ourselves, can tell.

They’re relationships

and partnerships.

Let’s work together

to build them well.

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This is wonderful, Todd! Your use of ship as a connecting piece is brilliant!

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A decade has got

nothing on us; we are more

than time and distance.

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Love your haiku, A! So much said in so few words!!

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Lovely 🥰

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I love this A. You are a versatile writer of great depth and form--no matter what style you write in!

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Let us wander,

You and I,

Over mossy sidewalk cracks and broken glass

To the river.

Let us exhale in the cradle of cottonwoods

And walk side by side,

Speaking of memes and interviews,

Worries and hopes.

The rule is that any conversation can be interrupted

To look at a bird, or a plant, or the fruiting body of a fungi--

"Look at this mushie!" you say,

And I say, "Warbler! But I don't know which kind, warblers are hard,"

And you say, "Is this a compass plant?"

And I say, "It's certainly Asteraceae, but that doesn't really narrow it down"--

Then we're back to errands we need to run

Or things that made us laugh

Or existential dread

Or some combination of it all.

And I breathe a little easier,

Because I'm with you.

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"& broken glass" yup.

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There's a lot of it around here! ;)

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I love this wonderful poem, Lisa. What a beautiful way to describe your friendship!

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Learning

As I get older

That in the

Field of friendship

The notion

Of quality

Over quantity

Really does

Hold true.

I feel

So supported

By just

A few

Precious people

Who truly

See me -

Who I can

Be myself with

Unabashedly.

Which in turn

Gives me strength

So the cycle

Moves forward.

What a sacred

Situation!

I guess

I'll keep turning

Oar-ward.

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This is brilliant, Sarah! It resonates so strongly with me, and us folks who may see the quantity of friends decrease...but not the quality. Thank you for this gem.

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Thank you Larry!

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I am really loving doing this project-- whenever I sit down to type, I'm never quite sure where the poem is going, and I feel like I've gained a lot of insight by seeing where each poem takes me!

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Let them drive

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Yes, exactly!

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I have a small collection

Of people in my life

Some gathered in recent years

Others, decades ago when maybe

I was someone altogether different

We journey together through this

Beautiful, confounding life

Sometimes in quick texts

Sometimes in conversations

Stretching into the night

Sharing stories only we know

In memories only we recall

Through laughter, tears, gossip, and music

Our connection both a time-capsule

And testament to the eternal within ourselves

And within those we gather

Into our family of choice.

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This is lovely, Rachel. What a precious testimony and song to friendship.

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Stories…

Memories…

Yes!

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Her ‘no’ celebrated

Emotional safety incubated

Patience not pressure

Long gaps ok

Following-up quietly

Listening is love

We bear witness

Boundaries known, respected

Wisdom her perspective

Shared stories re-told

Tears intersect laughter

Houses not ‘prepped’

Plans fluid, flexible

Agenda is cheerleading

Hope’s door held

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(sorry, dark & a little stalkish)

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.

.

.

for everything there is a season.

a time to plant

and a time to pluck up.

It's that dang pluck time

that always addles

friendship leeches like me.

Turn turn turn.

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Better to be dark & honest than sweet and lacking substance. Cheers, Chuck; you’re not alone.

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✌️

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The dark friends are the ones we know will go all the way into the shadows with us.

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Nice use of Ecclesiastes and Pete Seeger, Chuck!

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Friendship

Being able to pick back up

with the last conversation

no matter how many days

have come between

Knowing all the back stories

and the laughs shared

and the commonality

of thought

Finding a shoulder to lean on

and an ear to listen

and tears to shed

together

Going deep with words shared

and ideas and dreams

and attempts to explore

what is real

Feeling seen and heard

and understood

and cared for

just as we are

Friendship

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no matter how many days in between.

That's some good words.

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This is very nice, Trish. I can relate to this, and love how you describe that unique aspect of long friendships, being able to pick up where we left off no matter time and distance.

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Friendship

The invisible bond

The unspoken tie

The reassuring presence

As life sweeps by

The rock in the storm

The comfort in pain

The love in the sorrow

Makes us whole again

What a precious gift

This friendship we find

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This is beautiful, Jane . What a sweet song to friendship!

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Lovely 😍

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God of the lonely, the shamed, and the hurting,

you offered friendship without reserve to those

the world had bruised and abandoned.

Remind me to extend Your hand

to those around me when I think

I don’t have the spoons to extend my own,

because you never ask something of me

without giving me the power to create it.

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Another beautiful prayer poem, January. Thank you! 🙏🏻

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I've won the lottery

over a dozen times.

For at least that many people

have entered my life

in a meaningful way.

They've seen me and

loved me.

They've made me laugh, cry, wonder,

expand, and explore.

My friends have held me up

when things fell apart.

They've stood by my side

when the foundation shook.

They've kept me safe.

The freedom of authentic self-expression,

the gift of unleashing my inner weirdo,

the joy of unbridled living:

I've received these bountiful gifts

from my friends.

How lucky.

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This is wonderful, Sarah. I expect your blessed friends have hit the lottery as well!

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I embrace Mother Earth when I touch her life-giving soil.

I inhale the petrichor of a rainstorm

I exhale in relief when the sun reappears after disappearing behind a thunderhead

like a loved one returning home.

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Petricor is a new word for me (and my spellchecker, evidently). Love it!

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Katie, to this day, my spellcheck does not know the word 'bookstagrammer' and it's what I do for work! Thank you for your kind words.

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Splendid, Sarah. Your poem reminds me of an environmental group I once belonged to, “Friends of the Earth.”

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Thank you so much, Larry! Hearing feedback has been so helpful.

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I loved this beauitful prompt!

Friends

-

Friend. Friendly. Befriend

Be a friend. Best friend.

What a friend we have…

You have a friend in me…

Precious and tender feelings of the heart.

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The Sufi’s had a notion of God as friend,

and of God as beloved. Beloved friend.

In some Chrisitan circles the holy Spirit is friend.

Infinitely more comforting to me than “ghost”

or other more abstract descriptions.

Buddhists have the concept of spiritual friendship,

blessed companions who bring the best out in you,

and help lift you to your brightest angels.

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Friends are sacred. Sacred friendship.

These beautiful and imperfect beings,

who lift you when you stumble,

and sometimes stumble with you.

Beloveds with whom you can laugh from the belly

and cry the river of tears that may never stop flowing.

Blessed humans who can start a conversation again

after years of distance and disconnection,

as if there were no miles and moments between us.

Precious friends, who see the beauty and wisdom

in the lines on our faces, the creak in our bones,

the typos in our notes and the struggle in our aging;

Who know when our brightest light is trapped in the shadows

And how to give us hope once more.

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Blessed be to all those friends along my journey.

A deep bow of gratitude to all those, past, present or future,

who not only befriended me but loved me.

A delicious heart song sung for all those friends

who found me when I was lost,

or waited for me at the next junction when I lagged behind.

May your days be full of love and deep joy,

sacred moments with your beloved friends,

and the sweet symphony borne from our friendships.

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This is beautiful! Also, I didn't know that about Sufiism, but I love it. Mystics always come up with the best things.

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Too busy to write today

gardens to amend

dirt to spread

weeds to pull

beds to edge

then a rickety barrow

wheeling - squealing really -

the dirt all about

the church yard.

.

Neighbour Imad stopped by

took pity on my solitary labour

and joined in the

merry

mess

making

.

Now I must write

of an ancient Lebanese mountain village

of social contracts of common care

going back countless generations

of kindness

of kinship

of our mutual keening

for a world

made

new

by

friendship.

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This is so sweet and nice, Bob. I like where you take us and how you connect the stanzas. Great work!

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