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Curiosity

Instead of “Don’t touch that!!”

Why not “Be gentle”

For if we never touched, we would never get to experience

The smoothness of a glass figurine

The flames of a campfire

The feathery petals of a tulip

The damp skin of an earthworm

The brittle pages of an old book

The pigment of a painting

Our skin is our largest organ in which we sense the world

So, if it does no harm

Reach

Out

And

Feel the world

((Be gentle with it))

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My three year old

wants to build with every type of block,

wants to dig in every inch of sandbox,

wants to feel slime in between every finger,

wants to create in every medium,

wants to befriend every being,

wants to fly.

My ten month old

wants to taste every food,

wants to explore every inch of the house,

wants to dance to every kind of music,

wants to feel every new texture,

wants to move every second of the day,

wants to walk.

I watch them and remember what it's like

to experience everything for the first time,

to chase everything that is joyful,

to be in awe of everything,

to want to share every discovery,

to turn over every stone,

to be curious.

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It’s so hard to remember!

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I long for the radical

the robust and the wreckless

the relentless

curiosity of my youth

Singing and dancing in the rain with my mother

Making mud pies with my sister

Learning how to cook eggs

Never leaving home without my blanket and teddy bear

Using crayons on any surface in the house

Communicating with tears

Communicating with laughter

Communicating without a care in the world

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I wonder what our adult versions of blankets and teddy bears might be, those items used for protection or comfort? A book, a phone, a favorite scarf??

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Book, phone, favorite scarf, hoodie, comfy sweater, warm socks, hot tea with honey, all soothe the body, mind and soul the Fikka way

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curiosity

wonder

amazement

children discovering

life

something innate

we see it

babies find

fingers and toes

kids touching

slimy things

joy

laughter

shivers

smiles

facial expressions anew

excitement

life lived

Lord, let me be

curious

like that

again

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Amen!!!

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Curiosity is a threshold

Into life, more life

A mother and daughter just walked

By our house on the walking path

On their way to the elementary school

Walking hand in hand

The daughter looks elementary size

They are walking very slowly.

Are they listening to and chatting

About the symphony of bird songs

All around?

Are they captivated by the

Ducks on the pond they are

Walking by?

Are they curious about what

Each of their days are going to

Be like?

I’m curious if their day will be

A day were curiosity will flourish?

I’m curious about all the people

Who I see walking on the

Path by our house.

I wish them well, I

Wish them Peace and all good

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The raindrop on the cottonwood leaf

The rover on Martian soil

The plantain veins uncurled from the plant and tied into knots

The baby dropping her plate again and again

What is water, and what is the Martian soil?

What are these veins, and gravity?

May the spark never die.

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Curiosity

Wonder

Play

Sensory

Questions

Listening

Exploring

Slow

Attentive

Mindful

Connection

Relationship

Learning

Opening

Curiosity

The intuitive gift who invited

me into a new story…

May curiosity continue to expand

this story big enough and

good enough to hold all of us

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The older I get

the more I have to remind myself

to get curious.

Let wonder linger

unclench my hands from

the box of things I know

or rather,

the things I think I know.

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I often worry

how will I remember

to listen

to open up space

for what the next generation

will offer

will teach

will challenge

will re-interpret.

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One thing I know

I don't want to be

like some elders I've known.

The ones so set, so sure,

so right, so hardened, so

afraid

that the only way made

is out

through those big, old doors.

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And so

the older I get

may I remind myself

to get curious

and

let curiosity lead and guide

meander, if you will,

with the box opened wide

things in, things out

lid left gloriously behind.

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Yes. Love this.

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My 20-something kids and I talk about this all the time. I learn so very much from them, and they want to remember their feelings now when they reach mid-life.

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grown-ups = sexy.

kids = nonstop.

cats = bad.

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Curiosity

I never thought I was curious

Until I wanted to know the history of the Bible

I never thought I was curious

Until I saw that ray of light on that leaf

I never thought I was curious

Until I wanted to know where the ants went

I never thought I was curious

Until I thought about God

Then I got really curious

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🤔 your use of brevity and choice of words make me think. I like that

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Thank you! I’ve never have done this before!!!

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😉

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I love this one so much!

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I’m loving your poems, Kaitlin. I’m writing some too. 🧡

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I want to have to kind of

Open-minded curiosity

Of a child.

The ooo and aww kind

That is only found

In the minds of the young.

I want to behold this world

With the kind of wonder

I once knew.

To hold everything

In the open palms

Of my out-stretched hands.

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Waiting for needles

to etch down,

he suddenly asked,

“What makes the ink

that bright color?”

The artist pulled her hair

into a high ponytail,

straightening her back before

responding, “Pigments now,

I believe. Curiously enough,

I was told they once

used shellfish to make red.”

They both spent the session

flavoring the ink in the tattoo-

blueberries from Michigan,

lemon peels left soaking,

cranberries on Christmas trees.

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I love this language!

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The important thing is not to stop questioning …Never lose a holy curiosity.” Albert Einstein

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How long did Curiosity take to get to Mars?

What curiosity on my grandmother’s shelf was holy?

How much passion makes a curious soul?

Is the center of a labyrinth an answer?

How do butterflies pull me from my thoughts?

How do clouds know when I am bored?

How do you polish a mind?

Why does wandering matter more than algorithmic paths?

Why does mystery bring me to my knees?

Why do birds sing of wonder?

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Curiosity

I’m curious what will happen

when my liberal daughter

visits my conservative friend.

When namesakes meet

adult to adult

what truths will they value?

when “I worship in the pews”

sits down to dinner with

“I find divinity in the woods”

when “I’m boosted twice”

is invited to the

antit-vax, no masks table

Will curiosity win amid

organic food and specialized diet?

Will listening ears hear

the them of “Nature Heals”?

I’m curious how “Let God plan my family”

will sit with “I don’t want children.”

Will exhausted mother of five at 50

be encouraged by energetic auntie of half that span?

I’m curious about body image therapist

sipping tea with pro-choice journalist

they both love women

both fight against “too much” and “not enough”

deep control and disregard for life

Will these listening hearts seek depths

when shared in a surface world?

Imago Dei

Dignity to all humans

Are they not the same?

Will their lifelong love for me

Hold space long enough

for them to fall in love with

each other

and grasp the essence

of their beautiful personhoods

before idyllically, chaotic home waves goodbye

to wandering vagabond?

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What might happen if

we listen to different voices?

What might change if

we had a different view?

What might we discover if

curiosity

replaced

defensiveness?

How might we grow if

curiosity

replaced

the need to be right?

Could curiosity be a bridge

hidden in plain sight?

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