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Perhaps the sails we fill with our pledges,

our pleas to one another, our “will you

help me?” and “I am here for you”-

we could collect the wind

out of our collective lungs, expanding

continents, and propel our (kin)ship

against choppy waters, push us through currents.

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Somewhere

Across the world from me

They say Ubuntu

“I am because we are”

And I can’t help but cry

The beauty

The pain

The interconnectedness

That flows through these words

Strikes me anew

Every time I ponder it

I long for community

With organic tendencies

That replenish the earth

And each other

That raise babies

As well as parents

That share the burden

And the delight

We’ve made it so hard to find

And so seek I must

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But who are my kin?

Does connection need blood?

And what if I choose?

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the light within me

honours - sees, holds, celebrates -

the light within you

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Kinship

I remember in seminary

everyone sought the

beloved community

of Dr. King

misguided administrators,

faculty, staff,

and students

claimed the seminary

as such a community

But a wise professor

told us in class

that we were

NOT such a community

"You don't know what grieves me"

was the reason

kinship is

knowing what grieves another

caring and support

even if that is

sitting in silence together

a shoulder to cry on

a hand to hold

or a shared hug

knowing each other's pain

sharing in vulnerability

resisting oppression together

and most assuredly more

then we are enter into

kinship together

then

hearing the cries

from nature

as land is devastated

stripped of resources

and wildlife populations

near extinction

all for economic gain

we dream large

and care for creation

stopping the violence done to it

listening to the voices

of nature speaking

God's calling

we expand the kinship

into a kin-dom of God

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kinship with the soil

everything that lives through it

connected being

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Kinship

There’s deep healing in

Kinship

For the sake of kinship

For some, we must be intentional to walk the path

For some, we must be deliberate with every word

For some, we must be active in our trust

Sometimes, the thought of kinship is a

Bitter medicine, a

Placed-upon-us, a

How-will-I-ever.

But also for those very ones of us,

Kinship is a lifetime of leading,

Of being precious and clear to the

Who-am-I, to the

What-do-I-need, to the

Who-do-I-love, to the

Why.

Just like everything else in love,

Learning the lean of our love

Is an opportunity, another

Pit stop to shed a layer, to evolve

From Charmander to Charizard,

To fly and match our fire.

Kinship is, sometimes, a

Bitter medicine, but we take it

To serve us.

We take that medicine to course-correct

Our band of angels that

Came so deliberately to our

Earth as a tribe.

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Also adding the post I created for this poem that includes commentary on a few important thoughts for this subject: https://jillianjoy.substack.com/p/day-12-kinship?sd=pf

Powerful today. Blessings, all <3

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kinship..... I see you and you see me.

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for so long I felt untethered

relationally,

an ancestral mix of assimilation,

until you

talked to every ant, spider, beetle

in your hushed toddler voice

telling them you would keep

them safe from harm --

"they're family."

you knew kinship

with all our relations

long before I learned

you were right

all along.

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"Hey buddy,"

I say to the carpenter bee

and the baby bunny.

"Hey buddy,"

I greet the pair of kestrels and the

blue-gray gnatcatcher.

"Hey buddy,"

I croon to the comfrey and the columbine,

and the spider who lives in my laundry room.


"Take a rest, and welcome."

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Kindred Spirits

Kinship...next of kin....family....relations

Whether biology or by choice

The people who support and sustain us

Are our kinfolk.

With you I share a bloodline

And with you a common interest

But we are connected in some way

Kindred spirits in a discordant world.

Karri Temple Brackett

May 12, 2023

https://themarvelousandthemundane.com/2023/05/12/kindred-spirits/

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Kinship

Kindred

Kindom

Kin

All our relations.

Our communities,

spirit siblings,

families of choice and connection

partners in passion and provocation;

The beings, organisms and particles of earth,

the elements of the universe,

all that is, was and will be.

The adversaries that cannot

see our beauty.

Kindreds.

Connection seen and unseen,

belonging within and without;

Full moon shine over open water,

curtain rising Sunrise from Cadillac Mountain,

early morning mystery fog on Whitetop,

dawn greeting surfer on symphonic ocean,

Your eyes looking into mine.

Beauty abounds.

In this life,

and the lifetimes to come,

may our connections be beautiful and strong.

Kin

Kindon

Kindred

Kinship…

Ase!

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a drunk, broke-back window fall.

in virginia.

Couples with a sibling's

'what the fuck was that'.

in hawaii.

kinship.

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Kinship

As I eat my egg,

I’m reminded to be thankful.

Thankful for the egg,

but also for the chicken

and the farmer

who raised the chicken

and the people who made her feed

and for the grubs in the farmyard soil

and for the sun and the fresh air

that helped her to grow

and the market which

made it possible for me

to enjoy her gift.

How amazing

this relationship,

a sacred kinship,

that I experience

just eating an egg.

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Beautiful. I love how your exploration of kinship is an exploration of love🙏🥰

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Such powerful word-work, this. Thank you! For each line & the invitational reminder that WORDS belong to us even as we belong to them. How important it is to explore that very conversation. I think of James Baldwin’s rumination about “the world’s definitions” and David Whyte’s work with words he selected. Thank you - for YOUR leadership on the poetic page!

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