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Daneen Akers's avatar

Whew--yes, and yes! Very grateful you're talking about this. In every writerly space I'm in (mostly all women), this is frequently brought up. You're voicing what so many of us know.

As an author, I have realized that there is only so much I am willing to do on social media (I liked it a lot better when it was a social network...there really is a big difference between an organically evolving network meant to connect and the expectation that everyone is their own media publishing "brand.") I am of the age that I can remember a "before" time, and I am not willing to live/post/share most of my life (or my family's life, which is an expectation put much more on women). I want to believe in the Kevin Kelly 1,000 true fans theory, and while I'll never be anywhere close to wealthy (nor do I care to play the game of capitalism any more than is required to survive our current context as I genuinely hope we dismantle this beast!), staying quietly true to the readers who have come alongside my books has proven to be enough (sometimes barely, and sometimes I panic, but when I zoom out and can breath, it is enough). The energy to hustle/post online saps my actual writing energy, and long-term, I need the actual writing energy more. I would love to see what can emerge that is actually sustainable.

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Sam Messersmith's avatar

This is an incredible series. Thank you for speaking to it and for the inclusion of Indigenous wisdom on a topic where we might not instinctively reach for it - the world needs more of that. I love to read and I'd love to be a published author someday but having to "play the game" of it all has been a turn-off to writing a book at all. I am eager to read more of this series.

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