Friends,
Today’s word is bliss.
Bliss is a moment of complete happiness or utter joy.
Before we brush this off or scoff at it, thinking that it’s an impossible reality for so many people, I want us to see bliss as a spiritual practice, especially in turbulent times.
I remember a month or two ago sitting at a coffee shop in Philly, working away when I simply paused to look out the huge window that was in front of me. I became totally aware of that window, of my coffee, of the simple gift of life.
I even wrote a poem that very moment.
Looking out a coffee shop window
My god, did you feel that?
A shifting of the foundations,
A chest nearly bursting,
A heart on fire, a
River overflowing.
Nothing could have prepared
Me for this moment and nothing
Will ever meet its magic again,
So here, I sit and take in what
Is nearly impossible to hold:
The generosity of being human,
Of knowing what it feels like to be
Tenderly, fiercely, alive.
That was it. The bliss wasn’t eternal; I moved on with my day, and in fact moved into spaces of grief and exhaustion, too. This is the dance of being human.
Can’t wait to read your poems.
I can get a lot from scrolling social media but bliss isn’t high on the list—outrage, calls for justice, call outs and calls in are what I find there. No, bliss exists somewhere else, in the red chair tucked into the corner of my office where I journal and read, where I don’t try to escape but I try to dig deeper, my roots plunging into the soil of my soul until they find that little bit of water they need to keep going. Bliss, this moment of pure awareness, my breath deep and steady, my mind calmed before its storm rises up again, my belly settled and quiet because there is nothing to be anxious about right now. This moment is it, and I cherish it exactly because it won’t last— bliss never does, and that’s the whole point, isn’t it? A bliss is a snapshot of the purest thing we can imagine, the joy that goes beyond reason and the contentment that only visits us when we are sure that it is okay to be human, that it’s okay to exist in sacred liminality, that it’s okay to visit the quiet in the chaos and stay there until we feel prepared to re-enter the world that waits outside our closed doors.
This dance of being human -
Reparenting myself
As my daughter
Grows and learns -
Yearns and rages,
As she should -
As we all should.
Last night I held her close
For 'cosy booby' -
Our nighttime ritual
Of comfort, sustenance,
Sweetness and connection.
And for the first time
In a long time there
She drifted off to sleep;
Exhausted from her day
Of frustration, fun -
Bravery and bad-assery.
I looked down at her -
My greatest teacher -
Intertwined with me
In such a primal way.
And I felt it:
True and sacred -
Simple and treasured -
Bliss.
Then the moment danced on
And so did we.
To bed.
bliss
I want to
see you
a fresh
each day
not from
being unaware
like
"ignorance is bliss"
not from
being detached
and selfish
my own bliss
but a
communal bliss
that is growing
and shareable
an aware full bliss
that is attentive
and caring
a bliss that is
open and inclusive
contagious
not one requiring
uniformity
creed or doctrine
not one with
passwords or secrets
or even walls to protect it
but a bliss
like childhood
playing at the park
a park
the size of creation
which we share
afresh each
new day
not a eternal sameness
but with new focus
new foods
to try
new music
to learn
new dances
new celebrations
new laughter
new contentment
bliss